boys and girls

things that i don't understand...

boys that are afraid of girls

OK guys.
i do admit it wasn't until a few yrs ago that i realized that you are human with real feelings.
if you have realized this fact about the opposite gender then things could be a little different.
the fear is unnecessary. afraid of what?

guys that think girls are too independent

what do you expect? females in this day and age are required to be independent in order to survive. it's as simple as that. if we had to wait for the guys to step up to have our needs met we'd starve. with that view on the situation the attitude of, i can do it myself becomes ingrained into our mentality as well as the thought of, if i don't, who will? Survival of the fittest, right? those that are waiting for something spend there life "in line," and what kind of life is that?

i could be taking this entirely the wrong direction, but these are the thoughts that came to mind.

little sleep
early to rise
work
allergy medicine
empty stomach
for most the day i was fine
then as i'm looking around it's like sun spots started to invade my vision blocking only parts of my view
dizziness soon followed
weak
about to fall to the ground i decide to take a break from the run around of work
a little soup and tall glass of sugar later i make my way home to sleep it off
is this pre-migraine fun, i wonder
it's happened a few times before
i haven't figured out what sparks this fire, but i hope that it doesn't happen again.

Transport Publicly

the day starts
after you situate yourself for the day by dressing, collecting the necessities stowing them in your pack, eat and lock the door behind you
your shoes hit the pavement and make there way to the grassy curbside where you wait by a sign for the large public transportation device also known to humans as a bus
time passes
the cross walk chirps, cars stop and resume motion, bicyclers, pedestrians, a dog barks
numerous individuals with their own personal stories enter and leave your line of sight
the thought of what those stories might be enters and leaves your mind
you hear the air from the brakes release
the doors, pass in hand, your on and seated
you're finally situated in the seat and it's time to look up and familiarize yourself with your fellow passengers
the backs of people heads are all you see with a profile here and there
and then there's the bus drivers reflection in his mirror above head
some listen contently to there headsets, others read a book, some talk on phones, but most sit in silence waiting patiently for the turn to pull the cord to signal to stop ahead
the people are from all walks of life
elderly, and young mothers, blind, and handicap, bicyclers, and business people, students and the less fortunate...an occasional conversation competes with the roar of the vehicle's engine
picking up and releasing at almost every available stop
out the window the world is in a hurry as it goes by
"200 South and main street" calls the driver on the overhead speaker
it's time to pull the cord, you do and the bells chimes
thank the driver
your journey has ended
until next time.

Magnet effect

the last place that you want to see people attracted like opposite poled magnets is in a restaurant... am i wrong?
you enter the establishment to order food and the unit that at one point or another can be 2 people are standing in line directly in front of you.
trying to see beyond them to the menu takes focus and blinders
concentrate..."what do i want to eat?"
hmmm... this question is usually quick and easy but when you've got the canoodlers in front of you that can't separate long enough to walk from a to b.. she walks, he stumbles behind trying to avoid a face plant, which would be funny.
i find this question turning into, the chicken or the egg?
good for you honey, you've got yourself a fine catch
now that my appetite is suddenly gone i won't have to spend as much on lunch. thank you.
there really isn't sarcasm in that last sentence. i hate buying food.